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My husband asked me why do I keep on complaining about him cheating. Why don't I just leave?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 11:22

My husband asked me why do I keep on complaining about him cheating. Why don't I just leave?

If you are renting the house then leave, if you are buying the house, he either has to buy you out or it has to be sold. If he refuses and continues to act like a jerk, get yourself a Solicitor and piss him off completely.

Have you no self respect or self worth that you are prepared to stay with this smart ass.?

I would like to ask you the same question also. This man has no love or respect for you whatsoever. He thinks he can do whatever he pleases and sleep with whomever he wants and to he'll with you. He isn't about to leave the comforts of his home, so he wants you to.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?